Halloween Horoscope for Saturday, October 31, 2009 - My Special Inner Child

The Sun and Mercury are a sign of the mysterious life, old and new, beginning and end,death and birth. Halloween trick treat encourages us to directly engage in the unknown of the darkness, rather than contemplate it. A surprising Sun-Uranus provides us with the right spooky scarcity of something strange and unexpected to catch up with you, be prepared and remember, It is only Halloween.

Scorpio (Oct 23 - Nov 21)

What you lacking in this spooky night is patience, stay away from gossip unless you have an evidence to support your allegation. Be ready to protect yourself for the action you set yourself up to... be focused on getting your work done, and I mean it, today.... right now!

Sagittarius (Nov 22 - Dec 21)

Like always you are full of excitement, get busy today in promoting your charm. Going out for a Halloween party tonight is an ideal way to get things going in the right direction for you, remember, It is your chance to promote your talent and abilities.

Capricorn (Dec 22 - Jan 19)

My god, stop biting up yourself, practice positive affirmation, to brighten your future, If that makes you feel better, you have been spinning in the right direction.

Aquarius (Jan 20 - Feb 18)

You are good in planing, but you know Aquarius planing a head was never your best side, so stop planing, go with the flow... Today, someone is going to crosses your path with an entirely different agenda, stay alert... Remember, It's not about winning, It's all about learning, have you learned your lesson by now? You are good in establishing common grounds to make everyone feel like a winner, so have fun, relax and do the best that you can, your mission is to help others to be themselves, and you can only do it, if you have learned your own lessons, have you?

Pisces (Feb 19 - Mar 20)

Stop the Ego today, that is if you already made up your mind. Consider what you you can give and not what you can get, stay away from conflict if possible. That does not mean you should allow others to push you away, especially if they want to fix you. Stay firm, confident with what ever action you make take, keep it clean and stay away from trouble.

Aries (Mar 21 - Apr 19)

You are high on your natural adrenaline today and it's a good pleasant feeling, so enjoy it, why not, It's Halloween... stay focus with your attention on any changes coming your way and use any advice given to you wisely....

Taurus (Apr 20 - May 20)

Oh No... you must let go and learn some relaxing techniques, seriously, how about hypnosis for relaxation? You can be incredibly productive if you learn just to let go and relax. Oddly enough, I am a hypnotherapist and once you get the right tools, you can let your energizer Going... and as a result, you can enjoy doing anything you want to, start with stopping procrastination around home and work. Hey, don't look at this as a sales pitch, and stop looking for approval by others, since they can't see what you see or hear, they see and hear what they want to believe... So, do the right thing for you instead and take care of yourself :)

Gemini (May 21 - Jun 20)

Happy Halloween, ya.. This is your day darling, let go of whatever fear you have and enjoy life, and stop taking yourself too serious. Nothing is perfect and It's OK if you don't do everything right... Relax and let go your ego free, and also your self judgmental thoughts, learn self hypnosis, It will do magic for you, lol and i you need help, I am here to help.... Oh, I mean I offer hypnosis lol...

Cancer (June 21 - Jul 22)

Stop setting yourself up to fail, take it easy, do it slowly, step by step, and you'll see that it is not the end of the world :), always start with small task, so you know you can finish... there are no secrets, all you need to do is to be open minded and careful when you make a commitment. When you start slow, it will become part of you so you can actually do more as you go along...

Leo (Jul 23 - Aug 22)

LOL.. Well Happy Halloween to you crazy Leo, today is a good day for you to turn your crazy ideas into reality and even into a fast money. What you waiting? Go... Go... Make it happen...

Virgo (Aug 23 - Sep 22)

STOP!, Stop the cleaning, Stop the perfectionist and for once, only for once let go of your guard and have some fun.... Stop getting so cough up in the present moment, It makes you forget thing, relax... OK, I have to say it again, YOU NEED HYPNOSIS.. Here I said it.... Sometimes relaxation helps you to be more effective.html>

Libra (Sep 23 - Oct 22)

Today is a Fun day for, only if you allow it, and you will be caught by surprise for saying what you normally don't say, hey no need to dowel on it or feel negative just because you are under allot of pressure this days, acknowledge the fact that everyone is different and therefore their approach can be different from yours. Start socializing more especially with the opposite sex, something good may come out of it after all...

Courtesy By Doreen Cohanim C.Ht
Copyright 2009 © EnterYourMind/HypnoCruise.com

Halloween Horoscope for Saturday, October 31, 2009 - My Special Inner Child

How to Market yourself Part B

Now wee want to go one step up to part B, here I will show you how to finf related Blogs.

Would you agree that the other good way to find a good blogger is to use a blog finder tools. These tools typically search using keyword values to find related blogs.
Here are a few of these tools:
http://technorati.com/blogs/directory/
http://www.fastblogfinder.com/
http://www.softpedia.com/get/Internet/Search-engine-tools-submiting/Total-Blog-Finder-Tool.shtml

Nice and easy, Isn’t it? Now, lets say I want to promote my hypnosis product in a subtle way. A search on Technorati for ‘Fitness brought up these results:
http://technorati.com/blogs/directory/lifestyle/health-and-fitness

As you can see for yourself not all of the fitness bloggers are entirely what you are after or relevant to your niche, and there’s for sure a few bloggers there that I can comment on to receive my targeted traffic to my fitness product.

Another great idea is to contact these bloggers to do joint venture affiliate deals or place banner ads on their site, I haven’t found the one who are ready for it, but It is a great Idea, and so far I did link exchange, and It’s great as well.

I Know You Are Asking Yourself Over and Over again, OK, How Do I Start Getting Traffic From Blog Commenting?

First, you’ll need to download an RSS reader. These will allow you to add RSS feeds from the blogs on your shortlist so you can receive updates from them.
The RSS feeder I use is blogger at http://www.blogger.com It’s free to download. Another one is Google Reader at http://www.google.com/reader
Now you’ll want to add the RSS feeds from the list of blogs you have compiled. Visit all the blogs and add their RSS feed to your blog reader. You’ll be notified by your RSS reader whenever a new post is uploaded to those blogs.

The only reason you want to do is simply that you’ll get the first notice of when a new blog post is made, so you can quickly post a comment there. This ensures you’ll be one of the first few to post comments, and those are the ones that usually grab the most gazed at and get the most traffic.

Now writing blog is easy, but you want to appear unique with your Information, so you can create value In attracting more people o your blog commenting!

A great blog means exposure to receive a ton of traffic. So make sure to use creativity and talent to add something precious to your comment. Be the owner, the author expert in your market by engaging in the conversation of your blogger.

Let me know If you like what I am teaching you here, remember your comment is good for both of us, looking forward to bring more rewording messages.

Sometimes Being A Bitch Is...

Presently, one of my hypnotherapist business buddy associate made an unusual funny comment about me, of course as a compliment... being an active participant in some hypnosis related discussions here and their, got me this creative tile, B***...

And thanks to this comment, I was drown back to one of the greatest scene, I have watched in one of my favorites movies... therefore I wanted to share this clip with you, wondering what do you think of this statement or comment, when or if it was said to you...

Here is where the association came from; and this is based on my buddy associate comment; Hypnosis is an art. Some people, like Doreen, just have it. Bitch! Lol
(this really is just a joke. Pleased don't burn my house down).

Funny right? I like people who are honest and straight forward like my self... and I do take compliment like this one in a very positive way... wouldn't you?

Not to blow my whistles, but my middle Name is "B*** , lol...long story, It was adopted back in 1995, when I first saw the movie, "Dolores Claiborne".

Trust me, my middle name was born from this famous scenes that played in a great movie "Dolores Claiborne" - Sometimes Being A Bitch is All Women Has to Hang On To It.
That does not mean to be mean to people or guys, not at all, It means, I am more confidant to take care of my first, before anyone else...

Sometimes, you have to be a high riding bitch to survive... Isn't that statement true?

The Author Stephen King wrote the character of Dolores with Kathy Bates in mind.

A Great Movie to watch....

Enjoy It...

Making A Killing

Dare to Brake Free!

I have been emailing my group to get them ready and committed for the change they all need...

Why Dare to Brake Free, you ask?

Because everybody who says they want to change, still seat on their behind and complain.... really, I don't have this, and I cannot afford it, It's too far, It's too late, It's too early... All I hear is excuses ... excuses... can you tell me how would anyone be successful if all they do is complaining, nagging, crating, blaming and in the end doing nothing about it?

Few weeks ago I had an event, I asked participants to pay something like $5.00 donation, why, one for the appreciation of my time and for them to appreciate what they were getting for.

So I get an email from one member who says, wow, that's great,I wish I could come, I really have no money and I am looking for a job... so here I am, being understanding, I say, no problem, just arrive and don't worry for paying the $5.00.

I receive another email, I am sorry but I have a bike and it is too dark for me to drive, so I offered to pick that person up, since it was one block away from my event.

Then, I get a call, I have an interview, would you stop the event in an hour later and take me back home, so i can drive my bike to the Interview at 7PM?

And I am scratching my head, and all I can come up with is WOW....

I tell her, well If your interview is at 7:00 PM, I wish you the best of luck, but if you arrive to my event and go to the interview leaving early, most likely you'll learn allot of tools to help you attract a better work...

Giving her some tips and telling her that it is up to her to take action and make things happen to her, not me, and before I knew it, I was attacked that I don't know her and I have no right to judge her, and I am puzzled, scratching my head again and saying, OK let it go, it is crystal clear that this person is not ready for a change, I did everything I could to make it happen for her, but she was still looking for excuses and everyone to blame.....

That was only one of them, then I get an email from another young lady, same story, I don't have money, bla bla bla... and here she came, since she was the only one, I gave her a one on one hypnotherapy session, she was very happy and excited, but then she emails me and invites me to go to other events she goes and she does pay for it, and I am thinking, you kid me not....

You come to my event, ask for understanding, get a wonderful free session, ask me to attend for more sessions for free, but have enough money to pay $15.00 and $40.00 for each meetup events that are not as rewarding as mine...

So, No more Miss Nice and Freebies upon request... If anything is FREE, It;s because I want to give and share, not because people are good in acting...

My Philosophy is, Either you invest in yourself or you don't, it's all up to you....

I am OK, and I did what is best for me and I still do.... So that is what I am doing, emailing my group members and asking them to join me on the next Dare to Brake Free! This event is all about Forgiveness Celebrating the breakthrough for Abundance on May 1st, 7:00 p.m. at Tarzana, California.

I do have a spacial discounted rate: and just seven more days to register for the early bird discount until April 27th, 2009.

Have you been asking yourself IF you can make it? Well, it's time to make a commitment and start asking yourself HOW you'll make it.

In Honor of Dare to Brake Free to Attract the Ultimate Abundance!

For more information check our calendar event here; http://www.meetup.com/hypnoc/calendar/10181443/

Trust me, It will be very rewarding, as you release some emotional baggage.

Please feel free to invite your friends and spread the word out….

Looking forward to this event…… and who knows who is ready and who is not?

Doreen Cohanim C.Ht

Why am I still awake?

My knee hurts, slept too much during the afternoon... and now I am having a hot pad on my knee, while at the same time I am deciding what I will do next... at this moment, just clueless...
Let me think what is missing in my life right now?
Hummmmm... good question... have you wonder what is missing in your life?

This is what I am missing right now....
I am missing more excitement....
I am missing more money...
I am missing more friends, one cannot have enough 
I am missing more time for fun
I am missing more vacations....
I am missing more soothing body massages
I am missing more computer and web design knowledge.
I am missing more marketing tools
I am missing more friends who can teach me how to use the internet
I am missing more tutors to teach me the secret of internet optimizations without spending extra money.
I am missing more people to Invest in my practice
I am missing one other half, so I can spend the rest of my life with....

Hummm... I know, I probably could write much more, and I am sure you get the idea... So this is why I am still awake, I am awake, because when it is late at night, I usually think more positive, and become more creative, and at this time of night, OK... Early mornings, I become a free spirit that is why; I usually don’t have a set plan or any rules... I just go by the wave.... Oh Boy... please forgive me for wanting to go back to bed now, tomorrow is another beautiful day...and I am going to Lake Balboa for a picnic with my new casting friends ...Yes, I am all over, healer, hypnotherapist, life coach, motivational speaker, Intuitive psychic, massage therapist, educator, teacher, actress, writer, daughter, sister, aunt, mother, cousin, friend... wow.. Is there anything I am not?

Forgive me for missing out so much, and that is why I have asked for more time....

Limited Programming!

Yes, I know we all use the negative self talk and limiting words every day, either consciously or subconsciously… that is how we have been programmed… so what now?

Can we change it? YES

How can we change it? Glad you asked…

First you have to recognize that you are stuck using your negative thinking… Also remember that the negative thought is related you your “Ego” Yes ego, the one that usually wins the battle… regardless to being right or wrong…

Lets first acknowledge where is your Ego coming from, The ego is your Inner child, the one that is stubborn, childish and holding onto the images in their mind, in this case, it is your inner mind - known as imagination…

Please allow me to clarify and introduce you to your “Ego” also known as you’re “Inner Child” and what role your Ego-Inner child is playing in your life… so you can relate and understand them better, the limited programming and each character responsibility's…

You’re Ego - Inner Child, are your thoughts and your feelings that are simply based on your fears, doubts, suspicions, exaggerations etc…

So what we most do with our limited programming? We use it as an excuse…

I am willing to bet that you have used the “BUT” and TRY word so many times that it is part of your every day conversation…

Are you putting 1 and 2 together... do you realize that the word "BUT" & TRY is just simple negative words...

Interesting isn’t it? I love to be creative in my group classes, so if anyone who is in my group or classes uses the word "BUT" or “TRY” they get to write a full page of "BUTS" and “TRY” as a reminder to why "BUT" & “TRY” are Stopping them from achieving any goals in their life.... and then I become even more creative with the BUTS, by using symbols and objects that resembles any of those words, plus every time someone uses the words BUT or TRY, I am giving them the BUT & TRY symbolic objects, and in the end, the one who gets the largest amount of BUTS objects is going to pay a small penalty.... (That of course depends on the class and the program settings)

Just wait, we are not done, what about the negative word that is also used a lot...
Are you guessing? Are you having any difficulty coming up with the word? OK I’ll help you… It is called "Problem", so for you to get rid of this negative self talk, all you have to do is to replace it with more positive word that is connecting to the “Problem” such as “Issues”, "Challenges", "Obstacles", "Concerns", Bumpy Roads" and all of them are natural with an easy solution or an outcome… all we have to do my dear, is to just to use our gray cells to seek Solutions....

Is it Impossible? NO…

Just remember, that we are never given dreams without being given the “POWER” or the “PATH” to make them happen and to come true, and that is the SOLUTION my friends… when there is a way there is always a solution…

My mother always says, that her Mother, My Grandmother, her soul rest in peace, use to tell her, When one door closes another door always opens… just remember that… It is universal...

PAIN, SADNESS AND HEARTBREAKS will only keep going as long as you allow it to hurt your flash by cutting you too deep, the rule is, as long as you don't allow it, it won’t hurt anymore… All you have to do is to put, A STOP TO IT... Like Mother Teresa did when she said; NO MORE!

The point I am making is simple, once you experienced it, Learn from it and move on towards your ultimate goals.

The good news is; Time heals all……and your positive attitude will be developed greater with self awareness, Say No to “Negative Words, Negative thoughts, as soon as you realize you have been using it over and over… Reverse it, Stop It, Change It… and this is done with your conscious awareness, the law of repetitions is very affective….…

From now on, pay attention to what you are saying, what you are focusing on. Use your imagination, and catch your negative words and your negative thoughts, with a baseball bath, or something else that is fun and creative to you…

Make a mental note, perform self-checks several times during the day, get in touch with your feeling, see if it is negative feelings, such as frustration, irritation, anger, sadness, pessimistic or what ever you are programmed to do, and take a deep breath.. Exhale and send love and positive thinking back instead, let it go… or get to know me, I will help you make it go away…

Once you do that, you will notice the shift that will take place, and you will be responding with positive words and positive thoughts, so it will manifest with an instant good feelings of well being…

Doreen Cohanim C.Ht
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Welcome to Hypnosis for Happiness “EnterYourMind”

Hello, my name is Doreen Cohanim, Certified Hypnotherapist, HypnoBirthing® The Mongan Method, Melkizedek reactionaries- Energy Healer and Reiki Level One Energy Healer, Life Coach, Motivational speaker, Intuitive psychic and people person … but that’s not all I do, I am very creative and also very different, so feel free to speak to me or even to email me with whatever you feel hysterics. I am a twenty-two and a half in each leg... it does the math; I am an HMI graduate since 2004, currently studying more related hypnotherapy and the subconscious mind. I am living in California, in Sherman Oaks to be exact। I have never been aware of bloggers until just recently, posting few blogs on various places, and going out to networking events…

I am kind, sincere, straight forward, down to earth, patient, calming and friendly person। My passion and mission is to help everyone who wants to be helped, for as long as I live… I am respectful and expect the same in return… I am also not perfect, so feel free not to be perfect… I got into this lifestyle through hard and painful experiences, and I am here to share and to help you grow as I have and still do.

I didn’t just become an energy healer and a hypnotherapist by choice, life brought me into it… and I am grateful for that…. oddly enough by hypnosis since they share quite a lot of similarities. I am going to share personal experiences and stories from my life and from my clients that will inspire you with hope and excitement…. Sharing them with you will always enlighten and will open your hearts… Many of my friends, clients and my large family, from a very young age to a very old age, will testify that I am kind, understanding, and passionate as hell…. I am sure that will discover that very soon… being who I am my greatest treasure, and of all times… and I am grateful to God, the higher power…

I have been practicing energy healing since 1999 and hypnotherapy since 2003- Graduated from Hypnosis Motivation Institute in 2004. And ever since I continue to learn and advance my skills, I have been working directly with physicians and psychologist as well as psychiatrist… Today I work on line, from my clinic located in Tarzana and at the Family medicine of Northridge Hospital।

My greatest joy is when I see my client who came for various medical and mental issues leaving my sessions with a great joy and a positive attitude towards life…For me it is exactly like receiving a beautiful “Birthday Gift”…

What am I looking for? Is Your Smiles, Laughter, Joy, Passion, Health, Happiness, and Success...with whom I can share and deliver my passion, My hope, my dreams, and most importantly; to make you smile and that will be just enough to put a bigger smile on me…

Doreen Cohanim C.Ht

www.EnterYourMind.com